When it comes to communication, I believe in transparency, mutual respect, and setting clear expectations. I follow the 24-hour rule. I will not discuss anything about the game until the next day, so all parties can approach a conversation with a level head. I strongly encourage players to come to me directly first as I am an open book, and part of their growth is learning to advocate for themselves. If further discussion is needed, I’m always open to setting up a meeting that includes the athletic director or other coaches, keeping the conversation solution-focused and centered on what’s best for the team and individual.
From parents, I expect support, positivity, and respect for the program and the process. Their role is essential in creating a culture where athletes feel encouraged and held accountable. I ask parents to trust the coaching staff, allow coaches to coach, and reinforce the team’s values at home. While I understand the emotional investment in their child’s experience, we’re most successful when everyone stays aligned in their roles. I value parents who help build our culture, and let our coaches coach.
If you have any other questions about my expectations feel free to contact me at the most convenient option for you at https://lukemeans.com/contact-me/